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Thomas Allen

Like many others here, 500 words can't begin to touch the pain.

I have been told by a judge that my job is to pay child support and to worry about that and not my visitation.

I was told in front of the FOC enforcement officer, that my Ex will do anything in her power to "destroy" my relationship with our child.

I have paid child support since day one and still was back-dated over a year.

I was jailed; not for non-payment, but for not making enough to pay what they thought I "could" make.

My Ex in court said she wasn't working and living on my child's support payments.

I am not alone. Tell me when and where do we say enough is enough? When will FOC stand for Friend of the Child? I cry every evening wishing I could at least call and tell my child goodnight. I beg for change and know it's not PC.

Knowing this I expect nothing from the only ones that can enact change. No child left behind? What about our children who are forced to be fatherless by the system and vindictive Exes who care nothing for the childs well being, while guising as an advocate.

It is with the heaviest heart I have read every name on this wall. I vow to do so everyday until we can force the change so needed for our children.