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Donald Fanjoy

Hello everyone,

The state of NJ has forced me to move out of state NJ, away from my children because of the huge amount of child support I must pay. But the Salem NJ court system thinks that this is more than a fair amount.

I love my children dearly and it is killing me to be so far away from them. I have no choices in what remains of my life. No one who feels the agony of what this state has done to me and the rest of my life.

I thought is was the purpose to make sure the children maintain their current lifestyle from before the separation or divorce, not increase it 4 fold. Meanwhile I slowly wither away, drowning in more and more debt that I can't possibly get out of no matter how hard I try.

Why is this happening to me? Is this fair? How can the courts just destroy my life without a place for the whole story to be heard. The garnishment for child support leaves me with less than $50.00 a week, while I lose $1300.00 a month. How can the court system think this is fair???

When Fathers have to move in with their parents just to survive (if you want to call it that). In my case I'm 44 years old with other debts bestowed upon me from the separation and divorce. Something has to be done about this, all my hopes and dreams were taken from me, because of this unfair system.

It seems to me that this is too often the easy way out for some Mother. Don't get me wrong, I want to take care of my children, but If I can't survive how is doing this possible? Any advise, if anyone has any information that could help me (constructive please) I will be gratefull, I'm all out of choices.